Dear Dr. Archer,
I am writing to you today with much relief and in a much better place than I was a couple of months ago! We are now trying to find somewhere to go for marriage counseling.
I have been going to church alone, but now my husband wants to go with me. We have had many hours and nights of just talking to each other, and our focus is now back on each other. I love my husband with everything I am, and have spent over half of my life with him. I couldn't ever imagine losing him.
You were right to keep my hope and faith, and that it all would work out the way it is supposed to! Thank you so much, because you gave me the strength to open up to my husband and do what had to be done.
It was very painful and healing at the same time! My marriage is headed in the right direction now, and I am so very happy and thankful for that! We have been through the worst, and by that I mean losing my son, so I know we can also get through this!
In case you don't remember me, I am the one that my teen son was killed in a car accident, and my husband had been having an affair with the passenger in the car. God bless you and all the families you help.
Tammy
Dear Tammy,
I get so many letters, but there are a handful that remain with me. Yours,
"Tammy's Son Died In A Car Crash", is one of those few I will never forget. Thank you so much for giving me an update.
I am thrilled that you and your husband are working through your issues, with all the love you describe, I’m convinced you will make it. You have each other and your two precious children, and together you can all enjoy a loving, happy life.
Again, thank you for the update. Receiving feedback and knowing that I helped someone in need is priceless. I do ask one favor. Please stay in touch on my website and whenever you see another person going through a similar problem as you did, please weigh in. You have the ability to help others and that will indeed also keep help you as well.
I wish you peace and happiness.
Dr. Archer