Life Issues
I Am A Recovering Bibliomaniac
3/4/2012 10:00:34 PM
Dear Dr. Archer,
I suffer from bibliomania. It's a long story, but I founded a start-up university and each year I had to report to the State of Louisiana how many volumes we had in our library.

It was no fun reporting; we had only 500 volumes, so I began to go to the local established university library each night and crawl through the side of their dumpster and retrieve sometimes literally a pick-up truck full of good books for five years.

It seems that people die and leave their libraries to the local university in their wills, but the university doesn't want nor need them. However, politics and public relations being what they are, the university graciously accepts and receives the books, picks over them for any that they might want, and then tosses the rest into the dumpster. 

As my "university's library" got larger and larger, I had no place to keep so many books; I rented a weatherized warehouse to keep them, until I had expended at least $5,000 of my own money; then a local university lent me a sizable upstairs room on the second floor of a downtown building in Lake Charles, La. 

To get these books off the floor, I personally built twenty-one wooden book-shelves, each with eighteen feet of book space and bought every used bookshelf I could find at garage sales. I still had tons of books on the floor awaiting a shelf, upwards of 50,000 volumes! 

These were no junk books. Many of these were precious volumes, and I loved them. I read many of them, and I thought at times that I had learned more from books I had dug out of the local university library dumpster than I had learned during my four years of college there. 

Here's the rub: the wonderful University President who was giving me a free room to house my university's library sold his university's buildings to a developer. I had to clear out my books from the room that the university president had lent me.

I learned the hard way that one can't get rid of 50,000 volumes, especially of 50,000 volumes of used books. People will come and buy some; but they will pick choice volumes and leave the rest. 

I thought long and hard about it and realized there was nothing to do but throw them away. At first I would take a carload of books and dump them in the dumpsters of local businesses, until it dawned on me that this was in violation of law. One can't use somebody else's dumpster, without permission. 

I had a little bit of money in my account, about $1,000.00, and I walked into the office of the university president and told him my trouble of emptying the room before the takeover. I told him I had $950, and asked him to see that the job was done. He was very nice despite me dumping my problem in his lap. He accepted the check and for a week they threw books into the dumpsters. 

It was a horrible experience, my precious library I had devoted so much time and energy to, and to abandon my second life -- I'm a practicing attorney by profession -- but I did just that. 

There is more to this story than I am telling you here, but this is something to think about. I still have in mind someday of rebuilding my university's library until it has, not just fifty thousand volumes, but millions of volumes. I have already started bringing in books to my home and to my law office, until my wife has almost threatened to divorce me if I bring home another book. 

I have not sought psychiatric help for my bibliomania, but it might be a good idea for me to do so. I am trying to overcome it on my own. That's why I call myself a recovering bibliomaniac. 
Sincerely, 
Hardy 

Dear Hardy,
For our readers, bibliomania is the collecting of books which have no particular use to the collector and no value to a book collector. Bibliomania is not recognized by the DSM-IV as a psychological disorder.

As for re-kindling your hobby, I agree with your wife, your home is no place for all these books. But, I think you have a great story that the local media will embrace. Get some public awareness and a donated building or some space, then start that library and build it to be the biggest in the state. I find books fascinating as well and think that something good could come from this.

On a cautionary note,  read Can An OCD Wife And An Angry Husband Live Together? and What Has Caused My Obsessive Behavior? to become aware of obsessive and compulsive behavior. I think if you are not careful, you could qualify, so make sure this hobby is NOT interfering with family, friends or job. If it is, then you may have a problem that needs treatment.

Keep me posted, this is a great story.
Dr. Archer
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3 Comments
3/5/2012 8:02:14 AM
Hardy this kind of 'mania' is great! Don't ever recover! :-)
3/5/2012 9:13:37 AM
I love the irony. I've never met a book hoarder (I have a library myself, but it's got some room to spare), but I was in the music business for decades and literally could have had everything that came out free, though I picked and chose and then discarded the ones that didn't make it to my very small permanent playlist. If I had kept everything I'd been given, I'd have needed a warehouse, too. One customer of mine in the early days was a compulsive collector. His apartment was wall to wall record albums for many years, with only one narrow path to go to each room. He was a computer wiz, and when all that started, then he collected computer prototypes and other, and software. It just kept going and going. He used storage lockers. When he got married he was forced to get it out, but I secretly think he probably just still keeps it in storage lockers!!
3/19/2012 8:03:17 AM
He could be the founder and owner of a museum. How great would that be! Ok, maybe his wife won't like it, but he will be of offer to society, like austronauts I quess, who are never at home to see how their kids grow :-)
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