Relationships

Should BabyGirl Return To The Ex, Stay With 'New Boyfriend' Or Find A New Guy?

Dr. Dale Archer — Tue, 23 Apr 2013 06:00:00 GMT

BabyGirl is 18 and broke up with her boyfriend. She started seeing a new guy, but still found she had feelings for her ex.

Ivy's Husband Says He Will Kill Her If She Leaves

Dr. Dale Archer — Mon, 22 Apr 2013 05:30:00 GMT

Ivy has been married for 20 years. She has always felt her husband was cheating, but he always had a quick explanation for any questionable behavior. That is, until FINALLY he admitted to many affairs. Now he says to be a Christian and forgive him.

Salma's Husband Constantly Sexts Other Women

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 20 Apr 2013 06:00:00 GMT

Salma has been married for 27 years. Big problems began when he started hiding his phone and always kept it on silent. Then he started going to bed much later than she did, began working out like crazy and spent hours on the computer. You guessed it. He was meeting up with women online, exchanging nude photos and more.

After A Two Year Separation, Jackie Is Still Not Divorced

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 06:00:00 GMT

Jackie was married with two children. One day she found a chat site so she started chatting. Chatting soon became posting photos, exchanging emails and ultimately -- you got it -- cheating.

Sam's Breakup Has Made Him Sick

Dr. Dale Archer — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 14:00:00 GMT

Sam, 27, dated his girlfriend for several years, discussing the future, careers and marriage. After graduating from college, she moved to a nearby city and met someone who was wealthy, had an expensive car and spent money on her. He promised her the easy life, and she told Sam to take a hike.

Is Stacy's Boyfriend Still In Love With His Ex?

Dr. Dale Archer — Wed, 23 Jan 2013 06:00:00 GMT

Stacy's new boyfriend broke up with his previous girlfriend because she cheated on him. He keeps bringing it up to her over and over, saying he's afraid to love again and get hurt. She wonders if he's still holding a lit candle for the ex?

Should Christina Confront Her Ex Or His New Girlfriend?

Dr. Dale Archer — Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:00:00 GMT

Christina doesn't know what to do. Her boyfriend of three years broke up with her two months ago after a "friend of the family" arrived. She discovered he took her to lunches, dinners and who knows what else behind her back.

Jenny Isn't Sure Which Guy She Loves More

Dr. Dale Archer — Fri, 11 Jan 2013 14:00:00 GMT

Jenny isn't sure who to choose. She's been long distance dating a guy who has qualities she'd like in a husband -- he's reliable, honest, loyal, kind and compassionate. Then she met someone else, and the chemistry was too powerful to ignore -- incredible!

Does Tefera Have Reasons To Be Jealous?

Dr. Dale Archer — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 06:00:00 GMT

One day Tefera asked his fiancé if she knew one of his classmates, she said no. After the marriage, he started sensing she and this classmate really did know each other -- well. Now they have a one year old son and he questions if he's really the father.

Can Scott Trust His Girlfriend?

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 03 Jan 2013 06:00:00 GMT

Scott has been with his girlfriend for four months. The first eight weeks were perfect, but he now realizes she has many male friends, who she talks to constantly on Facebook as well as other social media forms. He is becoming jealous and possessive, which is causing arguments and trouble.

Jerry's Girlfriend Says She Loves Him..... But Lives With Her Ex Boyfriend!

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Jerry has been dating his girlfriend for about a month now. Her previous boyfriend cheated on her, and she could not get over the lack of trust, so she decided to "end it". He's very happy with her except for one thing -- she still lives with her ex! This bothers him, though she promises that once she gets COMPLETELY over her feelings for him, she will figure out a way to leave him.

Becky Says Her Engaged Uncle Is Her Everything

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 18 Nov 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Becky is 25 and is in love with her uncle. They used to have a sexual relationship, but then she left. She returned, and even though her uncle is now engaged, they still occasionally have sex and discuss having a baby together. She has left again, but now realizes he is her everything and wants to know how to get him back.

Hiejin Cannot Get Over Her Married Professor

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 17 Nov 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Hiejin is a college student and recently met a new -- and married -- professor. Now she's in love with him, and can't seem to get over him. She knows he loves his wife; he has even brought her to class. Yet she loves him and feels they were meant to be together.

Kiki's Boyfriend Won't Let Her Meet His Family

Dr. Dale Archer — Tue, 06 Nov 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Kiki is 22; her boyfriend is 33 and he's everything she ever wanted in a man. He has family coming to visit soon -- grandma, mother, and brother. He has forbid her to call or visit him while they're in town. He has become very tense, and says he won't have time for her until they leave. He never lets her look at his phone anymore, and his actions are becoming strange.

Does Siobhan Give Her Boyfriend One More Chance?

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 03 Nov 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Siobhan has a 4 year old son. She has repeatedly broken up with the father over the years. He has cheated on her, put her down and placed more emphasis on his parents and siblings than on his own child and her. He says he loves her and wants to be together . She asks what she should do, and how to know if he's finally turned over a new leaf.

Lana's Husband Says He Loves Her, While Blatantly Seeing Other Women

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 01 Nov 2012 06:00:00 GMT

For the past three years Lana's husband has wanted out of the marriage. He tells her to get the f*ck out of his life, he goes out to party without her and sees other women blatantly..... BUT repeatedly tells her he loves her dearly. She says she's a sinking ship, the USS IDIOT, and wonders how she can save her marriage on her own.

After He Ruined It, Wil Is Doing Everything He Can To Save His Marriage

Dr. Dale Archer — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Wil is 37 years old and has been married for 7 years. His life has consisted of lies, deception, pornography, drugs and gambling. When his wife found out what he had been doing, she left. Now separated, he wonders why it took all of that to realize how bad he was, and he now wonders what he can do to get his wife back.

Rainey Is Afraid His Mistress Is Using Him For Money

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 21 Oct 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Rainey is 60; his wife is 52, and they've been married for 28 years. His wife isn't interested in sex, but he sure is. He met a woman half his age and for the past two years, has had an affair. Now his mistress hasn't given him sex for the past four months, but is willing to talk about improvements he will make on her house and what she wants for her birthday. He wants to know if she's cheating, if she's upset that he's a married man or just using him.

Karin12 "Kinda Had Sex" With Her Future Brother-in-Law

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 18 Oct 2012 14:00:00 GMT

Karin12 went out with her boyfriend and his brother and they all got very drunk. When they returned home, her boyfriend went to bed while she remained in the kitchen with his brother. She remembers him kissing her, and she remembers exclaiming "OMG you're my boyfriend's brother!" but not much after that. She's afraid they "kinda had sex," but she's not sure. She told the brother not to say anything, and he promised, but she's afraid it's going to come out.

Jasmine's Cheating Boyfriend Might Be The Least Of Her Problems

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Jasmine and her boyfriend have been together for 7 years. Two years ago he cheated on her, carrying on another relationship because he claimed the other girl was giving him money. When she found out, he saw the error of his ways. But then, the other woman decided to get back at Jasmine, so she set her car on fire! She also posted pages of lies on Facebook and is now doing her best to break them up, even getting his sisters involved in the break-up plans. She doesn't want to break up, and asks what she should do about this crazy other woman?

Is Samantha's Husband Having An Affair With His Ex?

Dr. Dale Archer — Tue, 02 Oct 2012 14:00:00 GMT

Samantha met her husband online. They were not exclusive and he kept seeing his Ex. She found out, he apologized and five months later they married. Now, two months post wedding, evidence is mounting he is either seeing her OR the ex is spreading lies to get him back.

Misty's Boyfriend Cheated, Despite Her Being Pregnant

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Misty and her on and off again boyfriend have a 2 year old daughter together, and are expecting their second child. She found out he has been having online sex with random girls. If that wasn't bad enough, at least one girl not only knew her name, but also that she was pregnant with a boy. How does she know this? Because the girl sent a sexual video to the boyfriend and she saw and heard it. Now she feels gross and disgusting since she is pregnant, and she believes that is the reason he cheated!

Jenny's Boyfriend Cheats But Refuses To Let Her Break Up

Dr. Dale Archer — Wed, 05 Sep 2012 14:00:00 GMT

Jenny has been with her boyfriend for two years. He cheated on her within the first nine months with three women. She takes him back each time because he promises it's over, yet he refuses to let her look at his cell phone or facebook page. She has tried to break up, but he begs for another opportunity, and she always caves. Now he has a new job and is moving in with another woman- he says as a roommate only, though she begged him not to.

JCO's Dilemma: Escape Unhappy Marriage, Or Give Up The New Love?

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 02 Sep 2012 06:00:00 GMT

JCO feels trapped in her marriage because there's another guy she loves. She wants to save her marriage by repressing her true feelings and staying together because she does not want a divorce. But she wonders if that can work. She asks, can she repress her true feelings and find happiness again WITHIN her marriage OR will happiness only be found by leaving the marriage and embracing her love. What do you think?

Bev's Husband Doesn't Trust Her

Dr. Dale Archer — Wed, 29 Aug 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Bev and her husband married a year ago, and they have a two year old son. She is in the military, and met a guy last year before she was married. He texted her out of the blue, and now her husband thinks she is being unfaithful, even though she's never gotten together with him. Her husband moved out, but recently started visiting and mentioned starting over. Now he constantly checks her texts. She's in the military, and gets texts all the time! Now he wants a divorce, even though she has never been unfaithful. What do you think of this situation? Is there a chance it can last like this?